12 by 12 in 2012: The Lessons of 2012

When I had set out on my "12 by 12 in 2012" journey this year, I knew there would be a lesson or two to be gained from it; I just didn't know in what form those lessons would take on.  Sure enough, the "light bulb" started to go off in my head, and the lessons came into focus just as I started to wrap-up my 2012 travels.  188+ in-flight hours and approximately 80,000 flight miles have culminated into some of life's most important, but most basic, lessons.  We're talking about fundamental, everyday stuff that we take for granted as human beings.  Being on the road in 2012 has renewed in me a sense of purpose and happiness by teaching me to embrace the following lessons to guide the actions in my everyday life, even when I'm "grounded" at home and not on the road.....

#1: To Be Humble:  There's nothing more humbling than being in a foreign land where you can't speak the language.  From figuring-out where to find your gate at the airport to finding a place to eat (and then having to order), it's a real test of resourcefulness.  Any qualms of "looking stupid" quickly go out the window, because it's either "ask" or starve in many cases.  That said, you quickly learn to put the pride aside, even if it meant I had to break-out my broken French.  Put simply, it's a matter of survival and getting from point A to point B.  It ain't always pretty, but it's substance over form.  Ironically, you gain confidence from being humbled by the struggles; with each hurdle (i.e., task) you solve and overcome, you gain a real sense of accomplishment -- when you're able to order yourself a meal in a different language, somehow the struggles make you savor the meal just a bit more than usual.....

#2: Be Flexible:  Be flexible!  Situations can change quickly and you don't want to miss out on things if you have a rigid plan.  True for travel, true for living life -- life's messy; simply put, enough said...

#3: Show Compassion:  From my colleagues in Europe/Asia/U.S., to the old lady on an Amsterdam tram who told me which stop to get off, as well as the friends of my friends and the relatives of my relatives, I was the recipient of a lot of kindness from a lot of people.  For every act of kindness someone showed me, it was reminder for me to show the same compassion to others.  A lesson in give and get...it's a great feeling when you do something nice for someone else, no matter how small the gesture.  There were so many instances when someone did something nice for me when I least expected it, but most needed it, too!

#4: Feel Gratitude:  Take this blog, for example.  I can look at my journeys in one of two ways:  On one hand, I can say, "shucks, I still haven't been to every country and/or continent, yet."  Alternatively, I can reflect on the fact that I've gotten to see and experience things & places in the span of a year that most people don't come close to seeing in a lifetime.  I find that taking the latter perspective makes me a much happier person.  

Just as I've come to learn that compassion knows no borders, grief has no boundaries, either.  In the two weeks of my last trip, I crossed paths with stories of colleagues, both past and current, who've had heartache in recent days...a colleague confined to a wheelchair in the past 2 years due to ALS; a colleague diagnosed with stage III lymphoma; a colleague who lost his wife of 30+ years to a sudden heart attack, just as he was about to retire to enjoy life with her.  A lot of sadness all around, but each of these colleagues are fighting on...

All these stories have served as reminders for me of how grateful I am for my prognosis last year when I battled thyroid cancer.  All things considered, someone was definitely looking-out for me, because I got a chance to live and experience all that I did in 2012.

Life feels fuller and a little easier to navigate when you choose to focus on the have's, instead of the have-not's...

#5: Take Nothing for Granted:  Seize every moment of everyday doing what you want to do, because, as I've learned, life can change on a dime!  If you can't find anything to remind you of that, just watch the news...

When cancer was dropped on me at 28 years-old, it served as a reminder that we don't always have "next time." As such, I made sure that on every stop of my "12 by 12 in 2012" journey, I did and saw everything that I wanted to.  Even on the days I was extremely jet-lagged and sleep deprived, or feeling anxious to venture out and practice speaking a foreign language, I nudged myself to get a move on it, because who knows when I'll ever have the chance to come back for a visit to the same spot or place.  Even if I did return to the same spot, I've learned in life that "the second time around," isn't always the same....When the stars are aligned, you need to seize the opportunity and make the most out of that moment, because you don't know if you'll get another crack at it...

Just days ago, I came across this famous quote:

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” ~Mark Twain

I'm proud to say, my sails have caught wind in 2012 to take me to wherever my heart desires....

The Best "12 by 12 in 2012" Moments

A big, "Thank You!" to everyone who supported me and cheered me on in my journey, especially those who participated in either hosting me or accompanying me on a trip...I'm forever grateful...

Grand Finale: 3 Country Swing through Europe

Typical cobblestone street in Strasbourg

It is with bittersweet feelings that I post this entry about the final leg in my "12 trips by 12 months" adventure in 2012.  For my grand finale, work took me on a two week journey through Europe, with meetings in Frankfurt (Germany) and Strasbourg (France) that I tacked-on with an extended personal weekend in Amsterdam (Netherlands).  With two weeks, this was the longest trip I've taken thus far.  I went into the trip anxious that I'd get homesick, especially coming on the heals of spending quality time with family & friends over Thanksgiving.  However, as usual, my European colleagues quickly made me feel at home in Europe.  It's hard to cover all the experiences I accumulated over the course of two weeks in three countries, so to make it straightforward, I'll bucket this entry into the three countries visited.

If only I got this with a German flag

Part I - Germany:  As usual, my visit to our company's headquarters outside Frankfurt (in Darmstadt) is all business.  So, I don't have a lot of pictures for this leg, because I'm usually in all day meetings and surrounded by suit-and-tie management, so I don't usually take out the camera.  That said, it was with great surprise when on the evening I was invited to attend the holiday party for our team in Germany, I walked into a hut in the town center modeled after a ski hut and saw senior management partying with the "normal" folks as if it were a frat party!  While I was expecting a formal sit-down dinner, we rented out this hut-themed bar with DJ and the only thing that was served for dinner was German Goulash stew and all-you-can-drink liquor -- pure liquid diet.  Although unexpected, it was a pleasant surprise seeing people usually so "buttoned-up" let loose, and break the stereotypes that are often expressed by those outside our German HQ about our German colleagues.  It was yet another example of how people hold certain perceptions of another culture, yet we have more similarities than we do differences -- funny how alcohol and music can bring people together!  All the booze that was being poured at this party was only a sign of things to come for this trip...

Part II - France:  While most of my business partners sit in our German offices, the manager whom I report to sits in Molsheim, which is just outside Strasbourg, France.  Since Strasbourg is a 2 hour drive from Frankfurt, my manager decided to save me from the hassle of a bus ride and was kind enough to come pick me up via car and drive me back to France with him.  This leg of my trip was really to spend some time with my immediate team, since I'm the only one sitting in the U.S.  As such, my manager planned some team building time for us, which usually entails good food and plenty of wine!  Although I have previously been to our Molsheim offices, this was the first time I actually got to spend time seeing the sights of Strasbourg, and given the timing around the holidays, my visit coincided with the famous Christmas Markets in Strasbourg. While there are Christmas Markets across all European towns/cities this time of year, Strasbourg is known to go all-out in trying to label itself as "Capitale de Noël." I never realized what a bigger deal Christmas is in Europe than it is in the U.S. Basically, the concept of Christmas Market is a bunch of stands selling gifts in brightly-lit streets, as well as "Vin Chaud" (French) or "Glühwein" (German), which is hot wine sold at these markets to keep you warm from the cold of walking through the Christmas Markets. As I learned on this trip, not all Vin Chaud are the same! Some vendors put too much sugar in their hot wine, so that it actually tastes too tart. But, if you find a stand with a good recipe, it can make all the difference in taste. Most people get Vin Chaud rouge (red wine), but I tried the Vin Chaud blanc (white wine) this time, and I actually found it better tasting than the red. If you're ever in the Alsace region (French/German border), definitely give Vin Chaud/Glühwein a try!  But, it's only good the colder it feels outdoors...

 

The other thing that sticks out about Christmas Market is how many lights decorate the many small cobbled-stone European streets. The closest resemblance I ever seen is in the European modeled Disney World's Epcot "World Showcase," so it was surreal seeing real streets being decorated like this. I still can't get over how tiny the streets are in Europe and how old their buildings are compared to the infrastructure we have in the U.S. The other thing that was surprising were the crowds and huge turnout Strasbourg gets for its Christmas Markets! Folks travel from all over Europe to come see the lights and do shopping; in fact, it's really hard to get a hotel in the Strasbourg area this time of year and the hotels definitely price gauge, too! Good thing my weekend was on the company...

The best part of this leg of the trip was definitely spending quality time with my team, enjoying fine dining and drinking -- French style, of course. Compared to when I first started this job 18 months ago, it's noticeable that I've quickly come to like wine, cheese, and even foie gras! My boss took me to my new favorite restaurant in Strasbourg --  L'Hacienda Restaurant.

Foie Gras, Seared Scallop over
Sauerkraut,Beef Tartare

"Pluma de porc Iberique Pata Negra"

Dessert: "Cafe Gourmands"

Our team event was bowling, since we wanted to find an activity indoors to stay warm.  Since I was staying in Strasbourg for the weekend, each of my colleagues took turns to show me around so that I wouldn't feel lonely.  They went out of their way to make me feel comfortable, even going as far as inviting me to their homes to meet their kids and family.  It's really awesome having such a great family of colleagues, and we take great pride in how diverse our team is and how truly global we are.  In my team alone, we consist of French, German, Mauritian, and Chinese-American!  It makes for great conversation and exchange of stories & culture...You realize we have more similarities than differences...The team really took good care of me! 

Of course my boss (our leader) is the one with Mickey Mouse ears

Koninklijk Paleis in Dam Square

Part III - Netherlands:  The final leg of my two weeks in Europe ended in Amsterdam!  (We have a customer service center in Amsterdam for my company, but I couldn't tie work into this part of the trip, so this was on my own dime, in case anyone was wondering, hehe...).  I decided to take advantage of my time in Europe for business and add-on a personal trip since I already made the trans-Atlantic flight; it's only an hour flight from Strasbourg.  I had gotten the idea to go to Amsterdam from a previous colleague who had done the same, since people often have to make their connecting flights through Amsterdam.  Hearing all the crazy stories about Amsterdam and all the hype surrounding its tolerance of Marijuana and legalized prostitution, I must admit, I was a tad nervous about being in the city solo.  What you quickly learn is, like most things, Amsterdam is far from what its reputation makes it out to be.  Honestly, I didn't see anything that more shocking than I had already seen in New Orleans or Phuket, even the Red Light District!  It's really all become entertainment for tourists to see...

Rembrandtplein

The first thing that struck me about Amsterdam was how hospitable everyone is!  Sure, my colleagues in Germany and France are always welcoming, but I have to admit that bumping into everyday strangers on the streets, I found the Dutch to be a lot nicer than what I've encountered in either Germany or France.  It also helps that practically everyone in Amsterdam speaks English; I definitely found this city to have a lot of English-influence, which made it easier to get around!  When I think of Amsterdam, I'll always remember the following:  Canals, Bicycles, and Beer!

I had read that Amsterdam consists of more canals than Venice, and it sure does live up to the billing.  I've never been to a city with so many tiny waterways running through it.  While I had already gotten used to the tiny cobblestone streets from my time in Strasbourg, Amsterdam brings it to a whole new level.  The canals add another level of complexity, making the streets even tinier to navigate.  Subsequently, with such a tiny area with a large population, it's hard getting around with a car.  So, you quickly notice how many bicycles there are running through the streets -- it's the primary means of transportation for people living in Amsterdam.  I definitely saw more bicycles in Amsterdam than I did when I visited China.  Because the bike paths blend in along with the sidewalk, there was definitely more than one occasion I almost got hit by a bicycle.

Typical view of a Canal

How do you find which bike belongs to you!?

Thirst Quenching - so refreshing!

Munich will always be known as the beer capital of the world with its Biergartens.  But, Amsterdam is a great beer city, as well, being the home of Heineken and Amstel.  I have to say, the Heineken on draft in Amsterdam tastes so fresh and way more delicious than getting it in the bottle at home.  The best part is how cold the beer is served.  Although the pints are not as big as the Liter mugs in Munich, I have to say, the cold and crisp taste of the Heineken makes Amsterdam my preferred city to enjoy a beer.  Less than a month ago, I had the pleasure of visiting the Coors brewery in Denver, Colorado.  Similar to how I was able to visit the wineries of Napa Valley versus Bourdeaux earlier this Fall, I somehow managed to find myself at another beer brewery -- of course I had to visit the Heineken brewery in Amsterdam.  Unlike the Coors tour, the Heineken tour is not for free -- it costs you €17 to get in.  As a result, you do notice a lot more "bells & whistles" during the tour.  There's more interactive "exhibits" during the tour, such as a simulation ride as you view a film clip of how Heineken is brewed.  I also found the crowd in the tasting lounge to be a lot more rowdy with more buzzed people than there was at the Coors site.  Nonetheless, the "Heineken Experience" is definitely worth a visit for any beer-lover!

This looks familiar!

 

Not only is the beer great, but I found Amsterdam to be a great drinking city overall.  Again, I was very fortunate to have had a friend of a friend, Kim, (now my friend, too) living in Amsterdam to show me around.  Not only did Kim give me great tips in how to plan out my museum visits and sight-seeing as efficiently as possible, she took me to two drinking holes that turned out to be such jewels and are the type of gems that only locals would know of.  First place is known as the oldest bar in Amsterdam -- founded in 1619.  This place brews its own homemade Schnapps liquor; Kim and I got the Appel-Kaneel, which was dangerously delicious.  Take note that in Amsterdam, beer is used as chasers, instead of water, haha...

Appel-Kaneel with Beer chasers

Within 5-10 minutes later...

Second place Kim took me to is famous for its "jenevers," or Dutch Gin.  Another dangerously delicious drink...So tasty, you want more, but it's potent.  Again, the place was super tiny and wicked packed with standing room only.  The bartender fills-up your shot glass to the brim, so full you can't lift it up; everyone has to bend down to the table to take a sip before being able to pick-up the glass.  However, I leave it up to you to try to pronounce the name of this pub; all I have to say is, thank goodness I didn't have to hail a cab and say the name of this place to a taxi driver, haha...

How to pronounce?!

Strawberry Jenever

Conclusion:  As I look back on the last two weeks in Europe, I'm reminded how extremely grateful I should be on so many fronts.  I'm so lucky to have found a company that has afforded me so many great opportunities and experiences.  I'm grateful to have seized the opportunity to develop a global network of colleagues and newly found friends.  I'm fortunate that even when my friends from home aren't around to keep me company on the road, they're able to connect me to their network of friends (thanks Lucia/Kim!).  This was truly a satisfying trip in many regards, with many great experiences that I'm able to bring home with me.  

A great finale to my 12-by-12 in 2012 journey that entailed a mix of camaraderie and a test of my own individuality that is reflective of how I've evolved in the past year through my many adventures... A big thanks to my colleagues in Europe and Kim in Amsterdam!

Me & Kim

Stay tuned for my closing post in the coming days for my official "sign-off" to 2012...

(Left-Right):  Dario, Me, Franziska, Frederic

Went Rocky Mtn. Climbin' & Found the True Meaning of "Live Like You Were Dying..."

As some of my friends would put it, I went to Denver to complete the "trifecta" in Tim McGraw's Live Like You Were Dying by adding "Rocky Mountain Climbin'" to my skydiving and bull-riding bucket list.  However, the true purpose for my trip to Denver this past weekend was to visit my friend Eleanor and her family for the first time since they have moved to Denver.  While the sightseeing was light compared to my other trips, the quality time I got to spend with Eleanor, Drake, and their 2 year-old tot, Mirinae, was far richer than any hike!  For those who know me, you guys didn't really think I'd exert that much physical energy to go climb a mountain, did you!? (True, I did "shock" people with skydiving, but that didn't entail physical exertion).  After this past weekend, the mention of "Denver" will always remind me of 3 things: (1) Coors Beer, (2) Korean BBQ, and (3) Eleanor/Drake/Mirinae!

Descent Size Glass for a Free Tour

The only major tourist attraction that I wanted to see on this trip was the Coors Brewery Tour in Golden, Colorado.  Even though I don't really like to drink Coors beer, I had to make this pit-stop given the beer-lover that I am, even if it meant dragging a pregnant Eleanor and 2 year-old Mirinae with me -- they were both such troopers!  While Eleanor took in all the historic facts along the tour, I made sure to enjoy the beer tasting part that is included in the tour.  For a tour that is completely free, they give you 3 free samples in relatively large glasses!  I'd definitely recommend this tour to anyone visiting the Denver area!  Although I love beer, I must admit that beer-production isn't as sexy and glamorous as the wine-making that I got to see back in September in Napa Valley and Bordeaux....

Not as pretty as the Tanks for Wine

Wooden Barrels for Wine are Sexier

While I was expecting good Korean food on this trip, since I had previously heard Denver has a relatively large Korean-American population, I didn't expect to have the best Korean BBQ I ever had!  Eleanor and Drake took me to dinner at Seoul BBQ for Korean BBQ and it was soooo good!  I told Eleanor that I could visit Denver once a year just for Seoul BBQ.  Of course, having the presence of Eleanor and Drake made the food even more delicious.  Seoul BBQ - hands down best Korean BBQ.  One of the best things I ever ate at one of the best restaurants ever been to.  Probably takes top honors for dining experiences thus far in my 12 in 12 by 2012.

Even the non-BBQ dishes tasted great -- I know I've eaten most of the stuff before with Lisa (Eleanor's sister) in Boston or New York, but even these dishes below tasted better in Denver...

 

Of the 3 things I'll forever associate Denver with, I've saved the best for last -- that'd be Eleanor/Drake & Mirinae, of course!  For the first time in my journeys this year, I didn't feel like I had to go 100+ mph to get from point A to B, run between meetings, and/or rush to go sightseeing to put a check mark on some elaborate list of "to do's."  The highlight of my trip was seeing Eleanor and Mirinae -- that was the purpose from the start.  It was nice just to absorb and enjoy the presence of their company.  But, the unplanned part of the trip is that I left Denver with a very unexpected feeling -- a feeling that I had gained something that I didn't have when I landed in Denver.  The kindness that Eleanor and her family, including her in-laws, showed me in welcoming me into their home went above and beyond, and they made it easy to feel comfortable around everyone.  No matter how much I hate to admit it, who knew the laugh of 2 year-old Mirinae from allowing her to plaster my face with Pororo stickers could warm my heart as much as going snow mobiling on a glacier gave me excitement...  

An unplanned part of my trip was joining Eleanor at her church for Sunday service.  This was the first time I ever went to a church service, as my mother raised me as a Buddhist.  What was unexpected was how timely the sermon was, and how it has stuck with me through the plane ride home and even now in front of my computer.  As it was the Sunday before Thanksgiving, the pastor's sermon focused on being "thankful."  If we fill our hearts with the things we are thankful for, no matter how small, life is easier to cope with and we'll ultimately be happier.  It's common sense stuff I hear all the time from my friends and family, but hearing it in the context of a weekend where Eleanor and her family showed me so much kindness, along with a backdrop of a church setting where all these strangers were so welcoming with a niceness I hadn't seen before from strangers, I think that's why the pastor's message resonated with me on this day -- it was a timely message that tied-together my weekend with Eleanor.

So, that unexpected feeling that tugged at me when I had to say "good-bye" to Eleanor, Drake & Mirinae?  It was being thankful...Thankful that I've gained a friend in Eleanor (friend as in I don't need to keep referring to her as "my friend Lisa's sister").  Thankful that there's a two year-old out there (a.k.a. Mirinae) who calls me "Imo" (Korean for Aunt) even though I'm Chinese and not related.  Thankful for the incredible year 2012 I've had, and grateful that on this 11th month leg, the time spent with Eleanor around her kitchen table and playing with Mirinae in her living room showed me I don't always have to go seek out a snow mobile or set sail off the coast of Thailand to feel thankful and alive (just in time as my plane is about to be grounded as 2012 wraps-up, and I'm gonna have to cope)...

Sure, the 2012 I've had to-date is a testament that prescribing to the Tim McGraw Live Like You Were Dying trifecta of "skydiving, Rocky Mountain climbin' and bull-riding" spirit helps to heal -- I wouldn't give any of it up.  While I didn't go "Rocky Mountain climbin'" in Denver, this trip added an important layer to my year of healing -- by thawing out my heart enough so that I can remember all the things (small and big) that I have to be thankful for.  For that, there are 3 (soon to be 4) people in Denver who will always have a special place in my heart... 

3 Special People (horse not included, hehe)

Asia: Feeling "at home" 10,000 miles away from home...

Tsunami Warning Signs on
the streets of Patong

Phuket is on Southwest Tip
of Thailand

Last week, an offsite sales meeting for work brought me to Phuket, Thailand to meet with our Asia sales team.  The first time I ever heard of Phuket was in Dec 2004 when the Tsunami hit Southeast Asia and all the news coverage that followed in the aftermath.  At the time, I was a senior wrapping-up my undergraduate studies at BU, and I recall watching the tsunami images on TV thinking to myself, "what a shitty place - I would never want to go there and put myself in harm's way."  As usual, never say never...Who would've thought, fast forward 8 years later in 2012, work would send me to Phuket of all places, and I would find myself reveling in all the adventure in one of Asia's exotic playgrounds.  This is the furthest trip away from home traveled thus far for me.  While the perception is that this was a company-paid vacation, all joking aside, I didn't get a chance to leave the hotel grounds and see the outside of a conference room until day 3 of a 6 day stay.  Once again, I found myself at an amazing venue with minimal time to explore.  But, that's not to say I wasn't my scrappy self and managed to squeeze in some fun...If one must be stuck doing work, there are worse places to be "stuck" in than the Hilton Phuket Arcadia Resort & Spa on Karon Beach.  I really can't complain.

Hilton Arcadia Resort & Spa

Hotel Grounds

Speed Boat Ride

Our first team building event outside the hotel was to take a speed boat to Coral Island to replicate the reality TV show "Survivor" by playing various team obstacle games.  Although it was nice to finally see something outside the hotel, this was the most frustrating and hardworking team building event I've had to do to-date.  Most people know I don't enjoy physical activity all that much, but it was compounded by the fact that this was an Asia team meeting, where most of the people learned English as a second language, let alone know what "Survivor" is.  Taking the speedboat out to Coral Island was reminiscent of a similar boat ride I took just two months ago in Dominican Republic with my family heading to Saona Island -- I'm definitely a lucky girl to be able to visit two tropical island paradises within two months, let alone twice in a single year...

Green Team - Seriously?
I even had to paint my face

Team Ski Walk on Coral Island

Some spicy shrimp salad
that was lethal

All that physical activity sure works-up an appetite.  I couldn't wait to get off Coral Island for a cold beer and food!  Of course we encountered some more speed bumps trying to get off "Survivor" island to get to dinner that evening...First, because it was low tide when we departed Coral Island, our speedboat got stuck in some of the bedrock along the shore, so that took some maneuvering by the captain to finally get us back to the main island of Phuket.  Just as our boat docked at Chalong Bay, given the rainy season (April - Oct), we encountered a major downpour of rain.  By the time we walked to "Kan Eang @ Pier" seafood restaurant, the whole team was soaked!  At least the Singha beer and seafood that night was worth all the hassle of the day.  Thai food is wicked spicy!  The majority of items on any given menu is spicy, but the seafood is very fresh and abundant in the region, especially the gigantic shrimp!  I did eat plenty of pad thai, but I forgot to take a photo of one!  It was one of the few non-spicy staple dishes I had for the duration of my stay in Thailand.  Compared to the pad thai that we get here in states, I'd say we're not that far off from getting what the locals get in Thailand...

Grilled Seafood Plate

Tom Yum Soup

My hotel was located on Karon beach, which is the second most well known beach in Phuket (most famous being Patong beach, which is 15 minutes away by car).  Karon beach supposedly was spared for the most part from the Tsunami disaster that hit Patong beach eight years ago.  Most of the locals come to this beach, since it's less crowded from the tourist traffic.  Unfortunately, I was only able to sneak a peak of the beach, as most days it was nightfall by the time I was done with my meetings and couldn't see anything.

 

Karon Beach

Since lying-out on the beach wasn't an option at night, my colleagues and I were limited to either drinking or go get a Thai massage for post-dinner activities.  Given the sketchy reputation that Asian-run massages have in the states, I was wary of going to a Thai massage parlor at first.  But, after hearing my colleagues from Korea, Japan, China, etc speak so highly of the experience and how cheap it is (on average 300 Thai Baht = $10), I decided what the heck - might as well, since I've come so far! A Thai massage entails quite a bit of stretching to supplement the massage, and although I experienced some pain, the experience was descent enough that I ended up going twice!  Once for a full body Thai massage, and once for a foot massage.  Getting a Thai massage with a group of colleagues also provides great comic relief and team building...   

After a team massage, a group of us decided to venture out to Patong to see the nightlife scene, especially since it was a Friday night.  First, we had to take a "Tuk Tuk," which is a rickety rickshaw-like taxi, but added with neon disco lights and blasting hip-hop music during the ride.  I would have tried to take more pictures, but considering there was no door in the back and definitely no seat belts, I had to hang-on during the ride.  But, it's a fun ride which I'd recommend to anyone visiting to at least try once...

Tuk Tuk

Patong is the main "downtown" area on Phuket island.  There's Patong beach with many beach-side resorts that attract vacationers from all over the world.  Then, there's the surrounding streets of Patong with tons of shopping, including a major western-style shopping mall.  But, at night the bars open and the streets become like a "red light district" of sorts.  Soi Bangla is Phuket's version of what Bourbon Street is to New Orleans.  Bangla is lined-up with bars, nightclubs, strip clubs, and transvestites working the streets.  It's not un-common to see old white men with young local Thai girls.  While Bangla is definitely not a family-friendly place, there's something about the craziness that makes you think it's more for show and somewhat harmless.  Maybe it's just my lens on life becoming more progressive and I have developed a higher tolerance for what can bother me.

Bangla street

Most bars had girls dancing
on the tables

After a late night on Bangla street, a small group of colleagues remained in Phuket over the weekend and we did one more team event.  Given the fiasco with the "Survivor" team building, I was in need of a more relaxing team event.  My wish was granted, as the team event for my last day in Phuket was sailing!  We chartered a private catamaran to sail around Cape Panwa, which is the southern most tip of Phuket Island, where we then found a spot to anchor and snorkel/swim.  We even saw a group of dolphins!  While sailing in the Andaman Sea, and seeing nothing but water, there was more than one occasion I thought to myself, "damn, I feel so far away from home right now, in the middle of nowhere."  We sailed through some really remote waters.  But, the sailing was definitely what being in the tropics is and should be about...

Ao Yon Bay

Really? Work paid for me to come here?

Having to leave paradise is difficult on any day, but the blow of having to leave Phuket was softened for me by having a second stop to my Asia trip to look forward to -- I had to visit our offices in Shanghai, as well.  And, in Shanghai, I had a visit with my friend, Stacey, to look forward to.  For the followers of this blog, you will recall Stacey was featured in my February post, as the last time I saw her she was still in Philly.  When Stacey lived in New York City, I would go 2-3 years without seeing her.  In 2012, I've managed to see her twice and on two different continents!  After a week of being so far away from home, it's definitely a treat to be able to see a familiar face outside of work.

Stacey & Me at Shanghai's "The Bund" along
Huangpu River

After a whirlwind week in Asia, I come home with a lot of takeaways from this trip.  First, to open this post, I started with the story of how I first learned about Phuket eight years ago -- by the end of this entry, I'm proud to see how much I've evolved and changed since then; I'd like to think I'm a little less naive and more open to embrace adventure. 

Second, as I look through my photos, I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking "really? I get paid to do this for work!?  What kind of job is this!?"  Seeing my travels, I know it's hard for people to believe I do "real work," but believe me -- for every "luxury" in this world, there's a price to pay.  I don't take my business travels for granted -- it is indeed a privilege when the company sends me on these trips, but it's a privilege that I have to earn and prove that I'm worth sending to places.  I take great pride in these opportunities to go abroad and to do my presentations for work, as it's a tangible measure of how my career is progressing.

Third, I enjoyed being in Asia this time more than I ever thought I could, and I believe a big part of that was being able to connect with my Asian colleagues from Singapore, Japan, Korea, and China.  The camaraderie amongst my colleagues made Asia feel kinda "at home" for me, despite being 10,000 miles away from home.  What I enjoyed most was embodying the "unexpected."  In front of my European colleagues at this meeting, they would see that I am Asian, but were surprised to see how strong my American values are of being an individual and outspoken.  In front of my Asian colleagues, they saw "a banana," but were pleasantly surprised at how natural the Asian culture is to me, as well.  I'm a blend of East-Meets-West, and I think this trip was one of the few times, if not the first time, I could be myself (meaning both cultures that I come from) without any contradiction and as a result, I was at my best in excelling both in work and as a person.

Drinks at the only "wholesome" bar in Patong

Thai Massage Crew

As I left Asia, a senior executive asked me if this trip has "wet my appetite" to go to Asia for a position someday.  I would be lying if I said, no.  My interest is definitely piqued.  For now, I'm just savoring a trip that was both enlightening and satisfying in many aspects for me.  This trip has helped me gain confidence, optimism, and a sense of peace, in more ways than one.  I'm just going to sit on these feelings for as long as I need to, and while I don't know when and for what, I believe one or all of the lessons I've learned from this trip will help me make the right choice for an important decision someday down the road, whatever it might be - a work or personal decision...